A Flower spreads Fragrance, While garbage stinks. Now decide with your words…do you stink or smell sweet??
Courtesy costs nothing. Be couerteous all the people. Courtesy means politeness and frankness. Be polite, but not hypocrite. Be frank but not rude. This is right speech.To become a welcomed speaker we need to be a good listener.Unless and other wise needed & necessity arises-donot talk. Spiritual people often observe silent retreat to save their energy. Moreover before speaking to outside world communicating with our innerself helps us in paving way to clarity,peace,etc. If we talk more..our tongue may slip & we may blabber untruth also leading to disasters.Speaking with emotions, expressions, polite & softness allows us to build harmony with the speaker & listener and the message is easily conveyed.Let us be frank,polite & true speaker by not keeping differences in the actions & words.
If we say a diamond, a diamond…the pebble will remain pebble. But if we say a pebble as pebble, the speaker becomes pebble.”
Never allow rudeness to enter your thoughts,deeds,words.Keep you thoughts,words & deeds auspicious.Let us not refer about toxins but think about nectars.
The art of communication is as follows:
1.Listen.
2.Understand.
3.Confirm the context & meaning.
4. Now only reply your opinion/comments if he is interested to listen.